Autism in women has long been underdiagnosed and misunderstood. While the stereotypical image of autism is often based on male traits—such as social difficulties, intense special interests, and rigid behaviors—women and girls often present differently.
Why Is Autism in Women Overlooked?
- Masking and Camouflaging
Many autistic women learn to “mask” their traits by mimicking social behaviors, making eye contact, and forcing themselves into neurotypical norms. This can make their struggles less visible to doctors, teachers, and even family members. - Different Special Interests
While autistic boys may have highly focused interests in topics like trains or numbers, autistic women might have deep fascinations with literature, psychology, animals, or fashion—interests that blend more easily into neurotypical expectations. - Misdiagnosis
Women with autism are often misdiagnosed with anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder, or even ADHD before receiving the correct diagnosis.
Signs of Autism in Women
- Feeling “different” but not knowing why
- Chronic exhaustion from social interactions
- Difficulty understanding social cues, despite seeming social
- Intense focus on niche interests
- Strong need for routine and predictability
- Sensory sensitivities (light, sound, textures, etc.)
Seeking a Diagnosis
If you suspect you may be autistic, consider seeking an assessment from a professional familiar with how autism presents in women. Online screening tools, peer support groups, and self-advocacy can also help in navigating the diagnostic process.
Understanding autism in women is key to improving support and reducing late or missed diagnoses. More awareness means more women getting the recognition and help they deserve.